No one likes it when their best friend/friends move away, grow apart or avoid you. Even the bible says "a friend loves at all times..." (Proverbs 17:17) and "A (girl) of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend that sticks closer than a (sister)" (Proverbs 18:24).
Actually, the bible is FULL of stories of friendship, trust, betrayal etc. Take Jesus for example, he had 12 disciples. I think he would have considered them as his friends, don't you? They did almost everything together: prayed, ate together etc. Jesus even washed their feet! But in the end, Jesus got betrayed by Judas (one of the disciples). This wasn't just any betrayal like spreading a rumor, he gave Jesus up to the Romans!
First of all, many of us don't realize the other side of the story. You may not realize that your friend may be going through some hardships or troubles.
Some friends just need a break from each other. This may be your situation, maybe your friend feels like you've been 'stuck together' a little too much.
Some friends just grow apart. You loose interest, you don't have the same hobbies anymore and you/she/they has made new friends.
No matter how you look at it, you can't stay friends forever. Well you can still be friends but no one stays BEST friends forever. Most friendships grow apart. Ask any adult around you, they will probably say that they don't really remember any of their friends from school.
If you still have your best friend, DON'T TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED. You never know when they will just want to 'break away'.
More bible verses on this topic:
*Psalms 62:5-8 (God is a faithful friend)
*Romans 13:12-13 (Don't become jealous of your friend)
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